You can not carry your child’s cross

To Strengthen a Mother's Heart

crossYou can not carry your child’s cross.  Luke 9:23 states,  Then he said to them all: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.  We can not pick up their cross but are called to pick up our own personal cross daily.

We can not pick up our children’s crosses it does not work that way.  God created their cross for them.  Their unique attributes and obstacles; some to endure, some to overcome and some to count as pure joy.  All of these obstacles and attributes are blended together to create the masterpiece that is them.  We can not interrupt the process of them “becoming” to reduce our own pain.  I too anguish over my children’s struggles they seem unnecessary, messy, painful and without purpose.  I say to myself, “Surely the Lord would want me to fix this”, when the answer is…

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4 thoughts on “You can not carry your child’s cross

  1. So true. But hard to embrace. Moms want to fix things for our children and make life easier. The more we fix, the less they learn and mature. We need to cover them in prayer and step aside and let God do His perfect work in them. Thansk for sharing, Heather.
    Cindy

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